Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Honesty In A Storm--October 11, 2014


Honesty In A Storm

They said, "Teacher, do You not care that we are perishing?" (Mark 4:38)

We can trust the Lord in His love and care for us,
no matter how terrifying the storm.

1.         Jesus. There He was. In their boat. He was resting after a long day of expending human strength while ministering to needy people. Even God as man needed to rest. He was tired. Asleep and at peace. In a moment of sheer panic and paralyzing fear that had overcome His disciples, He was awoken from a deep sleep and presented with this brazen charge: “Teacher, do You not care (in the Greek, the word “care” is a verb that can read, “We are making an assertion that we do not matter to you”) that we are perishing?” Or to put it another way, “Apparently You are not in control of this storm, and we sure aren’t, so we are going to attempt to control You instead with our words.” Another word to describe what took place is the word, manipulation. Before we come down too hard on the failure of these disciples, we need to look closely at our own lives and pose these questions: (a) Have I ever used prayer to bend God’s will to my own? (b) Have I ever sought the easy path in order to avoid the challenging circumstances that form my character? (c) Have I ever accused God of doing wrong by accusing Him of being late or ignoring my prayer request? (d) Have I sought to make God feel guilty because of my unpleasant situation? (e) Have I ever suggested that God is not fair? (f) Have I ever felt like God did not care for me in a way I was expecting Him to care for me?

2.         Fear makes us do some pretty strange things sometimes. We become irrational, even though we seek to live within the confines of a rational life. We become spiritually paralyzed, forgetting to do everything we know to do (like pray, read our Bible, worship Him). Fear also drives us to grasp for as much control as we possible can. And in the pursuit of control we are only going after an illusion, for we will never have a deep and meaningful faith if we hold the reigns of control. The battle for control is a lifetime confrontation between us . . . and Jesus. Will we serve Him as Lord or will we seek to subject Him to our own will? Does His Word control our lives or do we attempt to control His Word by picking and choosing what we will and will not obey?

Dr. Denny Bates & Something New Christian Publishers © 2013 All rights reserved.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Psalms of Discipleship (Grace) Principle #17. May 5, 2012

Hello my dear friends! Today's Psalms of Discipleship is a timely reminder of how important the choices are that we make every day. Good choices most always lead to a good outcome. Poor choices usually produce the kind of result that leads to regret.

Do you feel any kind of undue pressure to make good choices all of the time? Perhaps, the grace of God will help you do the best you can and then leave the results to His Sovereign love and care for you.

Growing in grace,

Denny

Psalms of Discipleship—Principle #17

Life Principles For Those Who Choose To Follow Jesus And Live The Discipled Life

Key Scripture: 3 For You have been a refuge for me, A tower of strength against the enemy. 4 Let me dwell in Your tent forever; Let me take refuge in the shelter of Your wings. Selah. Psalm 61:3-4

Core Value: Grace

Choices. We make them (or don’t make them) every day. Some of the choices we make are founded upon a solid confidence that we are making the right choice at the right time and in the right way. These are the choices of confidence or courage.

On the other hand we may make choices that are based upon a paralyzing fear: “What if it is the wrong choice? What if I cannot control the consequences of my choice? What if . . .” These are the choices of doubt and fear. The person who has cultivated a habit of making choices based upon fear have set in motion a way of life where is no protection and no peace. Consequently, this person becomes a victim of their choices.

In contrast, because of grace that is applied, the Quality Disciple of Jesus chooses to throw his or her full weight upon the Lord’s ability (and promise) to care for them.

Principle #17 & Personal Application: Quality disciples find a safe refuge in the Lord.

Because of the grace of God, the disciple can experience the Lord’s protection and care, and say . . .

• The Lord has been a refuge for me.

• The Lord has been a tower of strength against the enemy.

• The Lord allows me to dwell in His tent forever.

• The Lord allows me to take refuge in the shelter of His wings.

Reflect & Respond: Some Really Good Questions To Ponder…

What does it “feel” like when I sense the Lord’s protection upon my life? What kinds of emotions fill my heart when I feel safe?

How does the grace of God remind me of the love of God?

Prayer:
Lord Jesus, You are a refuge for me. You are a tower of strength against the enemies of my soul. My heart cry is that You will allow me to dwell in Your tent forever. My desire is that You will allow me to take refuge and find protection and care in the shelter of Your wings.

The Essential Core Values Of The Quality Disciple Are…
Grace—Worship—Bible Study—Prayer—Community—Service—Evangelism

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Saturday, February 18, 2012

Psalms of Discipleship (Prayer) Principle #6. February 18, 2012

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Hello my dear friends! Multiplied grace and peace to you this day. Today's Psalms of Discipleship is a prayer of desperation offered up by the psalmist. He was in trouble. He was under attack from his enemies. They wanted to devour him and he was becoming weary of the fight. Instead of surrendering to them, he surrendered to the Lord. Its a great example of how we are to respond when we are facing our enemies: we need to pray.

Praying for you. Thanks for praying for me.

Denny

Psalms of Discipleship—Principle #6

Life Principles For Those Who Choose To Follow Jesus And Live The Discipled Life

Key Scripture: 1 Give ear to my prayer, O God; And do not hide Yourself from my supplication. 2 Give heed to me and answer me; I am restless in my complaint and am surely distracted, 3 Because of the voice of the enemy, Because of the pressure of the wicked; For they bring down trouble upon me And in anger they bear a grudge against me. 4 My heart is in anguish within me, And the terrors of death have fallen upon me. 5 Fear and trembling come upon me, And horror has overwhelmed me. Psalm 55:1-5

Core Value: Prayer

What are we to do when we are being attacked by our enemies? In a perfect world, everyone would get along with each other, be kind to each other, and would love each other too. It is easy to assume that those who have yet to become disciples of Jesus would be the greatest source of our troubles. After all, they don’t “know” the Lord like we do. However, far more often than not, our greatest challenges can come from within the body of Christ, from those who claim to “know” the Lord. Instead of edifying us, encouraging us, loving and accepting us, they hurt us instead. We begin to experience what I call “Cannibal Christianity” where believers are devoured just as Paul reminded the Galatian churches when he wrote, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself. But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another (Gal. 5:14b-15).

Here is the biggest challenge disciples of Jesus face when they are attacked by other believers: to retaliate and bite back or to pray and yield to the power of the Spirit which allows us to “walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh” (Gal. 5:16). When we walk by the Spirit, we will do spiritual things . . . like pray.

Principle #6 & Personal Application: Quality disciples, when faced with circumstances that cause overwhelming fear, turn to the Lord in prayer.

The Psalmist David was in serious trouble. His enemies sought to harm him and were sparing no energy in attempting to do so. Like us, he was human. Like us, he was in desperate need of His Lord. A disciple of Jesus who faces the terror of life. . .

• Seeks out God in prayer (vs. 1-2)

• Shares the reality of the obstacles with the Lord (vs. 3)

• Speaks honestly with God in describing one’s feelings (vs. 4-5)

Reflect & Respond: Some Really Good Questions To Ponder…

In what ways does the Lord comfort me when I feel overwhelmed by fear?

Do I feel I can be honest with God with my inner feelings? In what ways can I be more honest with God?

Prayer:
Lord Jesus, when I am in trouble and feel threatened by my enemies, help me to remember to seek You out in prayer; to share with You the obstacles I am facing; and to speak honestly about what I am feeling.

The Essential Core Values Of The Quality Disciple Are…
Grace—Worship—Bible Study—Prayer—Community—Service—Evangelism

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