Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Greetings

Christmas Musings—December 25, 2009

As we prepare to celebrate the birth of the Lord Jesus, I’d like to wish you many things:

May your heart be warmed in the knowledge of His great love for you

May this holy season be a fresh reminder of how He has brought joy to the world and joy to you

May His Wonderful Counsel be upon you as you make important decisions in the new year

May you gather in the new year many personal experiences of knowing Him as Almighty God

May you sense the care, provision, and great compassion He gives as your Everlasting Father

May you know Him as your Prince of Peace when fear and anxiety seek to consume you

Finally, I wish for you many blessings; so many of them that you will not be able to count all of them (Psalm 40:5).

I am grateful for your friendship and for the pleasure it is to serve the Lord with you.

Merry Christmas

Denny

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Psalms of Discipleship--The Third Sunday of Advent

Who is the man who fears the LORD? He will instruct him in the way he should choose. Psalm 25:12

Life Principle: The Quality disciple of Jesus Christ cultivates a disciplined habit: every life choice that is made is bathed in prayer.

Dec 13—Third Sunday of Advent

Application:

The Quality disciple of Jesus Christ cultivates a disciplined habit: every life choice that is made is bathed in prayer.

• When we fear (greatly respect and honor) the Lord, it will have a significant impact on how we pray.

• When we fear (greatly respect and honor) the Lord, we will be so close to hearing His heart that we are willing to seek His will, and not our own.

• When we fear (greatly respect and honor) the Lord, we will have a blessed assurance that the path we choose will be the correct decision.

• When we fear (greatly respect and honor) the Lord, we gain a fresh perspective of why God sent His Son to our world: to provide a way for us to experience eternal life. This is the wonderful story of Christmas. God made a choice…so must we.

Reflect & Respond: Some Really Good Questions To Ponder…

What does my life look like as a disciple of Jesus Christ? Do I live my life in fear of the Lord; do I greatly respect and honor Him?

How do I know for sure that the life choices I make are at the center of God’s will for me?

Prayer:

Lord Jesus, teach me how to fear God in the right way. Teach me how to respect and honor You. May my life be marked by a life of prayer that governs the choices I make. May I never seek my way as a replacement for Your way. May I be the kind of disciple who knows Your heart so well that I instinctively follow Your instruction on the way I should choose.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

When Friends Go To Different Places--Part 2--My Friend Joby

In Part 1 I mentioned that in a very real sense, life can be compared to the chapters in a gripping book. In my “book” there are two chapters, already written with the final edits in, about two friends of mine—Louise and Joby. Part 1 was about my friend Louise. Now, in Part 2 of When Friends Go To Different Places, I am privileged and honored to talk to you about my friend Joby.

Way back in time, back in the early 1970’s; the Lord sent a mighty revival to our part of the world in sleepy South Carolina, known by many as the “buckle of the Bible belt.” Many people who were religious, but spiritually dead, came alive and began the greatest journey ever with the Lord. These new disciples of Jesus willingly shared the greatest story ever told—by what they said, and just as powerfully, by what they did. Joby was among that number.

Joby loved the Lord Jesus and she loved the people He put before her. Whenever she touched a life, something wonderful happened to her community. With the precision of a master artist, her love painted a mosaic mural of members who were added to an extraordinary alumni group—(TWWLBJ) those who were loved by Joby. I was among that number.

I had the joy of first meeting Joby and Bob over 30 years ago. I cannot recall the first time we met, but I am sure that the focus of our meeting was the love we had for the Lord. As our relationship and friendship grew, I was invited to teach in their home where many young people came to learn more about Jesus. As a result, the Bristow home became a beacon of light for the Gospel as many were saved, were filled with God’s Spirit, delivered from addictions, and found a place of refuge and safety. Joby and Bob had the gift of hospitality and everyone felt right at home. I was among that number.

In 1979 my father told my mother he no longer loved her and left. At age 21, during my final semester of college, my “perfect” family fell apart and I was crushed, hurt, and emotionally reeling. The Bristow’s offered me their home, their family of Margaret and Bobby, their circle of friends, and their love, as a place to sort out my feelings. I became a Bristow. I became another person, among many others, who needed a lot of love and affirmation and got it from Joby and Bob and Margaret and Bobby. Joby and Bob prayed for me, listened to me, counseled me, adopted me, and loved me in a way that forever changed my life. As the years went by, I discovered that I was not the only recipient of their love. There were many more. I am grateful to say that I was among that number.

It has been said that the true measure of a life is best measured in not what we believe, not in what we say, but in what we do. Joby knew what she believed and she said many wonderful truths, but beyond all of that, Joby’s life was measured by her loving service. As I read through her published obituary, it underscores my own belief of her:

Quotes from her obituary:

"Margaret Jo Marsella Bristow (Joby), wife of Robert Blakely Durham Bristow of Darlington, South Carolina went to be with her Lord on Saturday, October 17, 2009.

Having a servant's heart, she devoted her life to her family, her church and her community as evidenced by her receiving The Order of the Silver Crescent, the highest honor that can be awarded for community service by the State of South Carolina."

On Saturday, October 17, 2009 Joby received a much higher honor, an honor I and any other believer desires above all else; to finish well and to be honored by our Heavenly Father forever.

John 12:26 (MSG)
"If any of you wants to serve me, then follow me. Then you'll be where I am, ready to serve at a moment's notice. The Father will honor and reward anyone who serves me.

Matthew 25:23 (NLT)
“The master said, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!’

My heart is heavy—I miss my friend.

My faith is sure—I know where my friend is and what she is doing, celebrating and worshiping Jesus at His feet.

My life will always be marked by Joby’s love for me.

My hope is that all who love Jesus will one day join Joby in a place where cancer and other human heartaches exist no longer:

Revelation 21:3-7 (NASB95)
3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne, saying, "Behold, the tabernacle of God is among men, and He will dwell among them, and they shall be His people, and God Himself will be among them,
4 and He will wipe away every tear from their eyes; and there will no longer be any death; there will no longer be any mourning, or crying, or pain; the first things have passed away."
5 And He who sits on the throne said, "Behold, I am making all things new." And He said*, "Write, for these words are faithful and true."
6 Then He said to me, "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give to the one who thirsts from the spring of the water of life without cost.
7 "He who overcomes will inherit these things, and I will be his God and he will be My son.

My name will always be Denny Bristow Bates.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

When Friends Go To Different Places--Part 1--My Friend Louise

In a very real sense, life can be compared to the chapters in a gripping book. In my “book” there are two chapters, already written with the final edits in, about two friends of mine—Louise and Joby. Ten years ago I met Louise at cardiac rehab. She was not your typical southern belle. In fact, she hailed from New Jersey, the typical “Yankee” whose creative use of the English language would peel paint off of the wall and would cause the faint of heart to wilt. But Louise and I were friends. Early on in our relationship, she and her husband invited Trish (my wife) and I, another cardiac rehab couple and several cardiac rehab staff members to Sunday lunch in their home. We all were honored guests. Louise and I were friends.

I’ll never forget the time before we really knew each other. As I was walking on the treadmill next to Louise; her creative language was flowing; using adjectives that colored the conversation. After my time on the machine of torture (the treadmill) was over and I moved on to another piece of equipment, Louise somehow found out via a conversation with Trish that I was a pastor. “Blankety, Blank, Blank….Why didn’t you tell me Denny was a Blankety Blank minister?!!!!!!” Once my young daughter was with us at rehab and Louise was on her best behavior until she used the word, “diarrhea.” Embarrassed that she evoked that kind of language around my daughter, she quickly said with her distinct Jersey accent, “Excuuuuuse me,” and without missing a beat she kept right on talking. But Louise and I were friends.

For some time now Louise has been in the fight of her life with Leukemia; a fight she finally succumbed to early this week. Many of those who are a part of the cardiac rehab family are believers and many of them shared their faith with Louise. Her “offensive” language did not keep us from embracing her, loving her, and showing her the love of Jesus. One never knows the eternal outcome of a person’s life and response to Jesus. Did she finally bend her knee to the Savior at the end, or did she, as I fear, reject His saving grace? Louise knew I loved her. I told her often. Louise and I were friends. But I wonder if she really believed that Jesus loved her, and did she love Him? I hope Louise and Jesus were friends. I hope He is your friend too.

What a Friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.

Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged; take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness; take it to the Lord in prayer.

Are we weak and heavy laden, cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge, take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do your friends despise, forsake you? Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He’ll take and shield you; you will find a solace there.

Blessed Savior, Thou hast promised Thou wilt all our burdens bear
May we ever, Lord, be bringing all to Thee in earnest prayer.
Soon in glory bright unclouded there will be no need for prayer
Rapture, praise and endless worship will be our sweet portion there.

What A Friend We Have In Jesus: Words by Joseph M. Scriven

12 "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.
13 "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.
14 "You are My friends if you do what I command you. John 15:12-14 (NASB95)

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Bible Study: "The Life Of Joseph: A Career That Impacted And Saved The World--Part 3

CAREER Boost—Session 3 (Genesis, Chapter 39:7-23)
Bible Study: “The Life Of Joseph: A Career That Impacted And Saved The World”


INTRO:
Genesis 39:6-23 (NASB95)
6 So he left everything he owned in Joseph's charge; and with him there he did not concern himself with anything except the food which he ate. Now Joseph was handsome in form and appearance.
7 It came about after these events that his master's wife looked with desire at Joseph, and she said, "Lie with me."

Career Hi-Lights!
• The notion that we have “job security” based upon our performance and hard work is erroneous.
• Joseph had a lot going for him—the trust of his boss, the blessing of the Lord, and…he was sexy.
• It often happens that our “strengths” can sometimes become the very things that lead to trouble.
• The misuse and abuse of power is a common occurrence in the workplace. In this case, it was sexual harassment. When we are on the receiving end of an abuse of power, it can change our world.

8 But he refused and said to his master's wife, "Behold, with me here, my master does not concern himself with anything in the house, and he has put all that he owns in my charge.
9 "There is no one greater in this house than I, and he has withheld nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How then could I do this great evil and sin against God?"
10 As she spoke to Joseph day after day, he did not listen to her to lie beside her or be with her.


Career Hi-Lights!
• A proper stewardship must be a part of our work ethic. We must know what belongs to us…and what belongs to the company.
• It takes a strong inner conviction not to bend to what is “convenient” instead of embracing what is “correct.”
• A Christian worldview of career always keeps this question at the forefront of one’s mind: “what does God think about this?”
• The temptation to sin does not go away easily—it is persistent, seeking to wear us down.

11 Now it happened one day that he went into the house to do his work, and none of the men of the household was there inside.
12 She caught him by his garment, saying, "Lie with me!" And he left his garment in her hand and fled, and went outside.
13 When she saw that he had left his garment in her hand and had fled outside,
14 she called to the men of her household and said to them, "See, he has brought in a Hebrew to us to make sport of us; he came in to me to lie with me, and I screamed.
15 "When he heard that I raised my voice and screamed, he left his garment beside me and fled and went outside."
16 So she left his garment beside her until his master came home.
17 Then she spoke to him with these words, "The Hebrew slave, whom you brought to us, came in to me to make sport of me;
18 and as I raised my voice and screamed, he left his garment beside me and fled outside."
19 Now when his master heard the words of his wife, which she spoke to him, saying, "This is what your slave did to me," his anger burned.

Career Hi-Lights!
• It is a whole lot easier to prove your case when there are witnesses around you.
• Just because we do the “right” thing, it does not mean we are protected from slander and false accusations.
• In the end, all things are political and are founded on power. In this case, Joseph had good connections, but they were miniscule compared to the power controlled by Potiphar’s wife.
• In spite of Joseph’s stellar work record and morally ethical life, he became the victim of a power struggle; and in this case, the misplaced anger of his boss became the tool God used to give Joseph his next career transfer—making license plates in jail.

20 So Joseph's master took him and put him into the jail, the place where the king's prisoners were confined; and he was there in the jail.
21 But the LORD was with Joseph and extended kindness to him, and gave him favor in the sight of the chief jailer.
22 The chief jailer committed to Joseph's charge all the prisoners who were in the jail; so that whatever was done there, he was responsible for it.
23 The chief jailer did not supervise anything under Joseph's charge because the LORD was with him; and whatever he did, the LORD made to prosper.

Career Hi-Lights!
• We can never judge our difficult circumstances at work as a “bad” thing when it is the very thing God uses to work out His plan for our life.
• Even in the most challenging times, the Lord is with us. In Joseph’s case, the Lord was not only with him, but also extended kindness to him, as well as giving him great favor with the chief jailer.
• Once again, even in a place Joseph did not choose to go, the Lord promotes him and gives him greater responsibility.
• Once again, like Potiphar, before a pagan unbeliever, the witness of Joseph and the Lord’s blessing upon him had a great impact upon the chief jailer. The prisoner became a blessing to the jailer. In reality, the prisoner was much freer than the jailer: God’s man at work was at work impacting those in authority.

Some Final Thoughts:
1. Has there ever been an occasion at work when the rug was pulled out from under me when I thought I was doing a great job?



2. Have I ever suffered the brunt of a misuse of power by those who supervise me? What kinds of feelings did I experience? Was I ever able to address how I felt to anyone else?



3. What is my strategy to keep God in the forefront of my mind when I am at work?



4. If I were to give someone like Joseph counsel, what would I say to them that would be an encouragement to them?



5. When I am given “power” over someone else, how sensitive am I to use it wisely?


13 For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. 14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, "YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF." Galatians 5:13-14 (NASB95)

Friday, September 18, 2009

Bible Study: “The Life Of Joseph: A Career That Impacted And Saved The World” Part 2

Genesis 39:1-6 (NASB95)
1 Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt; and Potiphar, an Egyptian officer of Pharaoh, the captain of the bodyguard, bought him from the Ishmaelites, who had taken him down there. 2 The LORD was with Joseph, so he became a successful man. And he was in the house of his master, the Egyptian. 3 Now his master saw that the LORD was with him and how the LORD caused all that he did to prosper in his hand. 4 So Joseph found favor in his sight and became his personal servant; and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he owned he put in his charge. 5 It came about that from the time he made him overseer in his house and over all that he owned, the LORD blessed the Egyptian's house on account of Joseph; thus the LORD'S blessing was upon all that he owned, in the house and in the field. 6 So he left everything he owned in Joseph's charge; and with him there he did not concern himself with anything except the food which he ate. Now Joseph was handsome in form and appearance.

Genesis 39:1 (NASB95)
1 Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt; and Potiphar, an Egyptian officer of Pharaoh, the captain of the bodyguard, bought him from the Ishmaelites, who had taken him down there.

Career Hi-Lights!
• God is sovereign in where we work, in who we work for and in how we get to where we are going
• It was in God’s sovereignty where Joseph landed a job (in Egypt)
• It was in God’s sovereignty who Joseph worked for (Potiphar, the captain of Pharaoh’s body guards)
• It was in God’s sovereignty how Joseph got to where he was going (by way of the Ishmaelites, who had taken him down there)

Genesis 39:2 (NASB95)
2 The LORD was with Joseph, so he became a successful man. And he was in the house of his master, the Egyptian.

Career Hi-Lights!
• God is present in where we work
• Because God is present, Joseph became a successful man
• After much crisis of change, Joseph finds himself “gainfully employed” as a slave in the house of Potiphar, the Egyptian, his master

Genesis 39:3-4 (NASB95)
3 Now his master saw that the LORD was with him and how the LORD caused all that he did to prosper in his hand.
4 So Joseph found favor in his sight and became his personal servant; and he made him overseer over his house, and all that he owned he put in his charge.

Career Hi-Lights!
• It is God’s presence in our lives that others should see
• It is God who is the source of any prosperity that comes our way
• It is because of God’s work in our lives that our witness or testimony will open up the doors of career opportunities

Genesis 39:5-6a (NASB95)
5 It came about that from the time he made him overseer in his house and over all that he owned, the LORD blessed the Egyptian's house on account of Joseph; thus the LORD'S blessing was upon all that he owned, in the house and in the field. 6 So he left everything he owned in Joseph's charge; and with him there he did not concern himself with anything except the food which he ate. Now Joseph was handsome in form and appearance.


Career Hi-Lights!
• The household and “business” was blessed by the Lord because of Joseph
• The blessing of the Lord leads to a greater opportunity for influence
• Lest we rest and be at ease and think that there is permanent job security because we are doing a great job and God is blessing us, there always lies the possibility of circumstances that come our way that are beyond our control; circumstances that will lead to yet another career change

Some Final Thoughts:

1. Think of a time in your life where you realized that God was at work in leading you to a job. How aware were you of His leading? Describe the steps you took that confirmed God’s will for you.

2. How do you keep an awareness of God’s presence at the front of your mind as you work?

3. For those who work close to you, is your faith in Jesus evident? Why is this so?

4. We are to work as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:17) and do the very best we can to make our company and supervisor successful. We are also called to make a relational impact upon our supervisor also;, even impacting his or her home. What is your strategy to impact both your jobsite and supervisor for Christ?


Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father. Colossians 3:17 (NASB95)

Monday, August 24, 2009

Bible Study: “The Life Of Joseph: A Career That Impacted And Saved The World”

August 16, 2009

The Bible Study notes of Denny Bates, The Quality Disciple, and Something New Christian Publishers--all rights reserved. Permission is granted for any printing, copying, and dispersion in any amounts as long as credit is given and no profit is made.

Handout #1

INTRO:

There are many people in Scripture who are noted for their careers.

David: Music therapist, shepherd, king
Peter: Fisherman (low level; sporadic)
Joseph: Administrator (in the jail, in Potiphar’s house, in Pharaoh’s house)
Nehemiah: Cup bearer (found favor with his boss); Builder designer
Solomon: He used it show off to gain a woman’s favor
Paul: Tentmaker
Tabitha: Textiles
Matthew: Tax collector (public servant)
Craftsmen who built the Tabernacle
Luke: Physician
Joseph (Jesus’ father): A skilled craftsman, technician
Daniel: Advisor, administrator, consultant / lived through four or five administrations
Esther: Entertaining the king / she became a diplomat / she did her job so well that she saved her people
Rahab: Prostitute
Mary who sat at the feet of Jesus: she left the kitchen and stepped out at the feet of Jesus to be His disciple (she made a career shift)
Deborah: A judge who became the leader of all Israel

The point: “Do your job well!”

Who Was This Man Named Joseph?

I. His Early Life.
(1) The son of Jacob and Rachel Genesis 30:22-24.
(2) The favorite child of his father, Genesis 37:3.
(3) On account of paternal partiality, hated by his brethren, Genesis 37:3-11.
(4) Dreams of exaltation, Genesis 37:5-10.
(5) Sold into Egypt, Genesis 37:12-28.

II. His Life in a Foreign Land, Genesis 39:1-50:26.

III. Seven Steps to Honor.
(1) Godly influence, Genesis 39:2-3
(2) Business honesty, Genesis 39:5-6
(3) Resistance to temptation, Genesis 39:7-9
(4) Divine favor, Genesis 39:21
(5) Providential circumstances, Genesis 40:5-8
(6) Honoring God, Genesis 41:16
(7) Divine revelations, Genesis 41:25-26

IV. His Christlike Spirit Shown
(1) In forgiving his brother's sin, Genesis 45:15.
(2) In his filial devotion, Genesis 46:29.
(3) In returning good for evil, Genesis 50:19-21.
— Thompson Chain - Topics

And now, his story begins…

Genesis 37:1-36 (NASB95)
1 Now Jacob lived in the land where his father had sojourned, in the land of Canaan.
2 These are the records of the generations of Jacob. Joseph, when seventeen years of age, was pasturing the flock with his brothers while he was still a youth, along with the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father's wives. And Joseph brought back a bad report about them to their father.

Career Hi-Lights!
• Joseph was young, only 17 years old
• His career was a herdsman
• He was in business with his family
• He turned them in because of their work performance

3 Now Israel loved Joseph more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age; and he made him a varicolored tunic.
4 His brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers; and so they hated him and could not speak to him on friendly terms.
5 Then Joseph had a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him even more.
6 He said to them, "Please listen to this dream which I have had;
7 for behold, we were binding sheaves in the field, and lo, my sheaf rose up and also stood erect; and behold, your sheaves gathered around and bowed down to my sheaf."
8 Then his brothers said to him, "Are you actually going to reign over us? Or are you really going to rule over us?" So they hated him even more for his dreams and for his words.

Career Hi-Lights!
• He was the “favorite” employee
• His brothers, or co-workers, were jealous of him

9 Now he had still another dream, and related it to his brothers, and said, "Lo, I have had still another dream; and behold, the sun and the moon and eleven stars were bowing down to me."
10 He related it to his father and to his brothers; and his father rebuked him and said to him, "What is this dream that you have had? Shall I and your mother and your brothers actually come to bow ourselves down before you to the ground?"
11 His brothers were jealous of him, but his father kept the saying in mind.

Career Hi-Lights!
• Just because you might be “right” is never an excuse for you to lord it over others—it is pride

12 Then his brothers went to pasture their father's flock in Shechem.
13 Israel said to Joseph, "Are not your brothers pasturing the flock in Shechem? Come, and I will send you to them." And he said to him, "I will go."
14 Then he said to him, "Go now and see about the welfare of your brothers and the welfare of the flock, and bring word back to me." So he sent him from the valley of Hebron, and he came to Shechem.
15 A man found him, and behold, he was wandering in the field; and the man asked him, "What are you looking for?"
16 He said, "I am looking for my brothers; please tell me where they are pasturing the flock."
17 Then the man said, "They have moved from here; for I heard them say, 'Let us go to Dothan.' " So Joseph went after his brothers and found them at Dothan.
18 When they saw him from a distance and before he came close to them, they plotted against him to put him to death.
19 They said to one another, "Here comes this dreamer!
20 "Now then, come and let us kill him and throw him into one of the pits; and we will say, 'A wild beast devoured him.' Then let us see what will become of his dreams!"
21 But Reuben heard this and rescued him out of their hands and said, "Let us not take his life."
22 Reuben further said to them, "Shed no blood. Throw him into this pit that is in the wilderness, but do not lay hands on him"—that he might rescue him out of their hands, to restore him to his father.
23 So it came about, when Joseph reached his brothers, that they stripped Joseph of his tunic, the varicolored tunic that was on him;
24 and they took him and threw him into the pit. Now the pit was empty, without any water in it.
25 Then they sat down to eat a meal. And as they raised their eyes and looked, behold, a caravan of Ishmaelites was coming from Gilead, with their camels bearing aromatic gum and balm and myrrh, on their way to bring them down to Egypt.
26 Judah said to his brothers, "What profit is it for us to kill our brother and cover up his blood?
27 "Come and let us sell him to the Ishmaelites and not lay our hands on him, for he is our brother, our own flesh." And his brothers listened to him.
28 Then some Midianite traders passed by, so they pulled him up and lifted Joseph out of the pit, and sold him to the Ishmaelites for twenty shekels of silver. Thus they brought Joseph into Egypt.
29 Now Reuben returned to the pit, and behold, Joseph was not in the pit; so he tore his garments.
30 He returned to his brothers and said, "The boy is not there; as for me, where am I to go?"
31 So they took Joseph's tunic, and slaughtered a male goat and dipped the tunic in the blood;
32 and they sent the varicolored tunic and brought it to their father and said, "We found this; please examine it to see whether it is your son's tunic or not."
33 Then he examined it and said, "It is my son's tunic. A wild beast has devoured him; Joseph has surely been torn to pieces!"
34 So Jacob tore his clothes, and put sackcloth on his loins and mourned for his son many days.
35 Then all his sons and all his daughters arose to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. And he said, "Surely I will go down to Sheol in mourning for my son." So his father wept for him.
36 Meanwhile, the Midianites sold him in Egypt to Potiphar, Pharaoh's officer, the captain of the bodyguard.

Career Hi-Lights!
• He becomes the victim when those he works with turn against him
• He loses his job and is “transferred” to a new assignment, a cross-cultural one, in Egypt


Some Final Thoughts:

1. How can I best describe my current (or recent) work environment? Was it a family owned business or was it corporate? What special challenges do I / did I face?


2. Does my work culture consist of a healthy attitude towards team work or open competition—i.e., may the best man / woman win at any cost?


3. How is “success” celebrated where I work?


4. What has been the most difficult challenge I have faced when I am changing jobs (either by my own choice or when the choice to change was forced upon me)?


And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 (NASB95)

Thursday, July 30, 2009

The Edified Church--Full Teaching Version

The Edified Church:
Christ’s Goal, Our Hope
From the Teaching Notes of Denny Bates

It was the great C. H. Spurgeon who said,
“Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you.
So carve your name on hearts and not on marble.”

Ephesians 4:11-16 (NASB95)
11 And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers,
12 for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ;
13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.
14 As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming;
15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,
16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.

Ten Marks Of A Healthy Church
1. The Mark of a Gifted Leadership (vs. 11)
2. The Mark of Equipping Christians to Serve (vs. 12)
3. The Mark of Gifted Leaders Who Build Up the Body of Christ (vs. 12)
4. The Mark of the Unity of the Faith (vs. 13)
5. The Mark of the Knowledge of the Son of God (vs. 13)
6. The Mark of Maturity (vs. 13)
7. The Mark of Stability (vs. 14)
8. The Mark of Strong Relationships Founded Upon the Truth (vs. 15)
9. The Mark of Growing Up (vs. 15)
10. The Mark of an Edified Body that Edifies and Builds Each Other Up (vs. 16)

Dr. Robert Coleman says,
“One must ask, why are so many professed Christians today stunted in their growth and ineffectual in their witness? . . . Indeed, it would appear that the teachings of Christ regarding self-denial and dedication have been replaced by a sort of respectable ‘do-as-you-please’ philosophy of expediency.” Pg. 59. Coleman, Robert E. 1963, 1964, 1993. The master plan of evangelism. Grand Rapids, MI: Fleming H. Revell.

An Important Indicator…

“An important indicator for the health of the denomination [Southern Baptists] is new baptisms, which fell in 2008 for the fourth straight year to 342,198, a 1 percent drop and the lowest level since 1987, according to Lifeway Christian Resources, the publishing arm of the Nashville-based Southern Baptist Convention. Total membership of about 16.2 million was flat over the same period, falling by 38,482 or 0.2 percent.” Source: www.thestate.com; Saturday, June 20, 2009

Points to consider:

1. A lot of emphasis is placed upon presenting an evangelistic message during services at many evangelical churches across America. My question is really two-fold: One, with this much of an emphasis, how many souls are coming to Christ during the service (in a month, over the past year, over the past five years)? And two, how empowered (or edified) are the members of the Body of Christ at the local church level when it comes to sharing their faith and bringing others to Christ?

2. My seminary professor, Dr. Harold Burchett, always said that an edified church will become a soul-winning church. It is my observation that we (the leaders of the church) can to do a better job of edifying our flock. And how is a believer edified? He or she is edified when he or she experiences spiritual growth. This is best accomplished when it is modeled by a mentor or disciplemaker.

3. When spiritual growth is occurring and becomes a reality in the lives of believers there is (a) a far greater depth of walking in grace, (b) a greater depth of awe and wonder of the Lord by participating in meaningful worship, (c) a fresh commitment for deeper Bible study, reflection and personal application, (d) an intentional decision to be devoted in prayer by seeking to know Christ in an intimate way, (e) a desire to bond with others in a community of faith, (f) a willingness to serve God and our fellow man by using our spiritual gifts and (g) a strategic plan to share our faith with the lost.

4. Conversely, when there is little to no spiritual growth occurring in a body of believers, there are several noticeable outcomes: (a) a lack of enthusiasm—for God, for personal spiritual growth, for the body, for the lost; (b) a fracturing of community where the desire for close fellowship with each other wanes; (c) a dulling of the willingness to serve; (d) a lack of desire for personal and corporate prayer; (e) a mistaken religious exercise of what is presented as “worship” becomes nothing more than a watched performance and feel-good entertainment; (f) and while there may very well be new people who join the body, they must be considered as “transfer” growth (those who are shopping around)—not “regenerated” growth (those who have come to saving faith in Christ).

The Bible gives us clear plans on what is expected from us…

The saints of the Lord are to be equipped and built up or edified—by leaders as well as the entire body, contributing to the spiritual growth of each member.

By Leaders…And The Body

for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; Ephesians 4:12 (NASB95)

15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love. Ephesians 4:15-16 (NASB95)

By Leaders…And The Body

We are all charged to go and make disciples and teach them what it means to live for Jesus.

19 "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." Matthew 28:19-20 (NASB95)

By Leaders…And The Body

We are to make an eternal investment in people.

28 We proclaim Him, admonishing every man and teaching every man with all wisdom, so that we may present every man complete in Christ. 29 For this purpose also I labor, striving according to His power, which mightily works within me. Colossians 1:28-29 (NASB95)

Ten Marks Of A Healthy Church

1. The Mark of a Gifted Leadership (vs. 11)
11 And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers,

• The Body Of Christ Needs Mentors

• “Mentoring is not about coming to know something; that would be education. Mentoring isn’t about learning to do something; that would be training. Mentoring is about showing someone how to be something. It’s about becoming a learner and follower of Jesus Christ because that’s what makes our Father most pleased . . . you only know that you’re a follower of Jesus when you’ve helped someone else become a follower of Jesus.” (Campbell 2009, 18)

• “The term mentor actually comes from the world of Greek mythology. Ulysses placed his son Telmachus under the tutelage and care of a wise sage named Mentor. Ulysses was away fighting in the Trojan War, so Mentor was responsible for teaching young Telemachus ‘not only book learning but also in the wiles of the world.’ Mentor’s task was to provide an education of soul and spirit as well as mind, and education in wisdom and not merely in information.” Pg. 35 (Anderson & Reese, 1999)

• The gifts to the church are gifted people. The subject He is emphatic in the Greek to denote that Christ Himself gives the gifted people. Five kinds of gifted people are listed in the predicate accusative, so the NIV correctly translates, gave some to be.
— Bible Knowledge Commentary

2. The Mark of Equipping Christians to Serve (vs. 12)
12 for the equipping [or preparation] of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ;

• An Interesting Word Study…

• The purpose of the gifted men is to prepare God’s people for works of service. More literally, this purpose is “for the perfecting or equipping (katartismon; cf. the verb katartizō in Matt. 4:21, ‘mending’ or ‘preparing’ nets; in Gal. 6:1, ‘restore’ for proper use; cf. 2 Cor. 13:11; Heb. 13:21) of the saints unto the work of the ministry” (diakonias). Gifted people (Eph. 4:11) are to minister the Word to others so that they in turn are readied to get involved in ministering to others (cf. 2 Tim. 2:2). The goal of all this is the building up or edifying of the body of Christ (cf. Eph. 4:16).
— Bible Knowledge Commentary

A Leader’s Task…

• “This passage shows that the leadership of the local church should prepare people to be effective ministers for Jesus Christ. That includes helping them grow into spiritual maturity, and the end result is full employment of God’s gifts through His people. When every member is doing his or her own part, the church will build itself up on love. To get this job done, training and development must be multileveled. The word translated ‘prepare’ in Ephesians 4:12 means ‘to train an athlete, to mend a broken bone, to restore something in disrepair.’ –Bill Hull”

3. The Mark of Gifted Leaders Who Build Up the Body of Christ (vs. 12)

12 for the equipping [or preparation] of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ;

“upbuilding, strengthening, encouragement; building, structure” — Barclay Newman: NT Greek-English Dictionary

Building Up The Body…

• “Richard Foster, in his best selling book Celebration of Discipline, begins by noting, ‘the desperate need today is not for a greater number of intelligent people, or gifted people, but for deep people (page 1).”

4. The Mark of the Unity of the Faith (vs. 13)

13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.

Unity of the Spirit…

2 Corinthians 13:11 (NASB95)
11 Finally, brethren, rejoice, be made complete, be comforted, be like-minded, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.

This is the blessing of a healthy church—unity.

5. The Mark of the Knowledge of the Son of God (vs. 13)

13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.

Knowing Him…

Philippians 3:7-11 (NASB95)
7 But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ.
8 More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ . . . 10 that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death; 11 in order that I may attain to the resurrection from the dead.

This is the blessing of a healthy church—knowing Jesus.

6. The Mark of Maturity (vs. 13)

13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.

Spiritual Maturity Is The Goal…

• In order to grow spiritually, it takes effort; effort that is supernaturally undergirded by the grace of God. It takes obedience and a clear decision to follow the Lord. Pastor and writer Rick Warren underscores this when he writes,

• “Spiritual growth is not automatic. It takes an intentional commitment. You must want to grow, decide to grow, make an effort to grow, and persist in growing. Discipleship—the process of becoming like Christ—always begins with a decision. Jesus calls us, and we respond: ‘Come, be my disciple,’ Jesus said to him. So Matthew got up and followed him.’” (Warren 2002, 179)

The Blessing of Spiritual Maturity

Hebrews 13:20-21 (NASB95)
20 Now the God of peace, who brought up from the dead the great Shepherd of the sheep through the blood of the eternal covenant, even Jesus our Lord,
21 equip you in every good thing to do His will, working in us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen.

This is the blessing of a healthy church—spiritual maturity.

7. The Mark of Stability (vs. 14)

14 As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming;

Stability For The Believer…
Colossians 2:6-7 (NASB95)
6 Therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him,
7 having been firmly rooted and now being built up in Him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, and overflowing with gratitude.

This is the blessing of a healthy church—spiritual, mental, and emotional stability.

8. The Mark of Strong Relationships Founded Upon the Truth (vs. 15)

15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,

An Environment of Truth and Grace

• “In emotionally healthy churches, people take a deep, hard look inside their hearts, asking, ‘What is going on that Jesus Christ is trying to change?’” Pg. 69
• Scazzero, Peter L. (2003). The emotionally healthy church: a strategy for discipleship that actually changes lives. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.

Speaking the Truth….In Love…

• Paul stated positively that by speaking the truth in love (lit., “truthing in love,” which has the idea of maintaining truth in love in both speech and life) believers may grow up into Him with reference to all things. — Bible Knowledge Commentary

This is the blessing of a healthy church—where a culture of truth and grace allow for trust to exist.

9. The Mark of Growing Up (vs. 15)

15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,

Growing Up In Him…

• Psychologists Cloud and Townsend add their perspective of how vitally important it is to know our spiritual bearings:

• “If we are going to deeply help people on the path to spiritual growth, we have to know where we came from, where we went from there, and where we are heading.” (Cloud and Townsend 2001, 26)

Growing Up In Him…

Hebrews 6:1 (NASB95)
1 Therefore leaving the elementary teaching about the Christ, let us press on to maturity, not laying again a foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God,

This is the blessing of a healthy church—where disciples of Jesus, across the spiritual spectrum, are growing up.

10. The Mark of an Edified Body that Edifies and Builds Each Other Up (vs. 16)

16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.

Everyone Is Involved…

• “Every disciple should make disciples . . . Disciple making included introducing people to Christ, building them up in faith, and sending them into the harvest field . . . Some disciples will have leadership gifts, and God will call them to spearhead the disciple-making activity. Only a few are called to leadership in the corporate body, but every disciple should take part in the disciple-making process at some level.” (Hull 1990, 20-21)

Everyone Is Involved…

• “The discipling church is at least three things: a hospital for the spiritually sick, a greenhouse for the growth of new believers, and a training center for the eager and well.” Pg. 41 (Hull, 1990)

Everyone Is Involved…

• There is great opportunity for those who are willing to following the Scriptural mandate of making disciples. Robert Coleman states,

• “Anyone who is willing to follow Christ can become a mighty influence on the world providing, of course, this person has the proper training.” (Coleman 1994, 38)

Everyone Is Involved…

• “To plan on making disciples, we need to know what one is and how people become disciples. We need to know these things by personal experience. . .” (Willard 1998, 300)

• “We work hard to disciple others, but only God can transform them.” (Waggoner 2008, 14).

Everyone Is Involved…

• Much of the success of a discipleship relationship comes from targeted, Spirit-led prayer. It is a supernatural experience and must be treated as so:

• “I always want the person to whom I am offering this invitation (of discipleship) to know that he or she is not an individual who I have blindly chosen out of the church directory but someone the Lord has laid on my heart with a settled conviction over time.” Pg. 124 (Ogden 2003, 124).

Everyone Is Involved…

Colossians 1:17-18 (NASB95)
17 He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.
18 He is also head of the body, the church; and He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that He Himself will come to have first place in everything.

This is the blessing of a healthy church—where the Body of Christ is connected to the Head and to each other, loving them, encouraging them, building them up.

Some Final Words…

• “The purpose of Christian formation is not developing a better self-image, achieving self-fulfillment or finding self-affirmation; nor is it the development of individualistic qualities that make singularly outstanding saints. Rather, it is developing certain qualities that enable us to live responsibly with the community that we have been baptized into.” Pg. 102-103 (Chan 1998, 102-103)

• Some Final Words…

• “. . . the goal of the Christian life is not to turn out fine specimens of sainthood. It is the union with God—glorifying God and enjoying God forever, fulfilling the ultimate purpose for which we were created.” (Chan 1998, 126)

• “What is your mission in life? Is it to serve God in some unique way? Is it to minister to your spouse or your family or your neighbors? Is it to rescue the victims or to heal the wounded? Is it to make the world a better place to live? You will not do any of those things very effectively without making choices for the nourishment of your own life. Hungry people cannot work as effectively as those whose needs for nourishments have been satisfied.” (Buhler 1991, 24)

• How does a believer satisfy the spiritual hunger that is a constant reminder of one’s need? We need to turn to God, allow Him to feed us as we live the discipled life.

• Discipleship is for hungry people, people who need the Lord. Once we find the nourishment we need, we will be able to lead others to the Bread of Life; and then,

• “. . . your experiences in nourishing yourself will help you know how to nourish others. It is folly to try to talk other people into living nourished lives when we don’t even know what that it is!” (Buhler 1991, 26)

• “The words of an old Hasidic rabbi on his deathbed are true: When I was young, I set out to change the world. When I grew older, I perceived that this was too ambitious so I set out to change my state. This, too, I realized as I grew older was too ambitious, so I set out to change my town. When I realized I could not even do this, I tried to change my family. Now as an old man, I know that I should have started by changing myself. If I had started with myself, maybe then I would have succeeded in changing my family, the town, or even the state—and who knows, maybe even the world!” Pg. 100 / Scazzero, Peter L. (2003).

In Summary, Ten Marks Of A Healthy Church

1. The Mark of a Gifted Leadership (vs. 11)
2. The Mark of Equipping Christians to Serve (vs. 12)
3. The Mark of Gifted Leaders Who Build Up the Body of Christ (vs. 12)
4. The Mark of the Unity of the Faith (vs. 13)
5. The Mark of the Knowledge of the Son of God (vs. 13)
6. The Mark of Maturity (vs. 13)
7. The Mark of Stability (vs. 14)
8. The Mark of Strong Relationships Founded Upon the Truth (vs. 15)
9. The Mark of Growing Up (vs. 15)
10. The Mark of an Edified Body that Edifies and Builds Each Other Up (vs. 16)

Want To Learn More About Living the Discipled Life?
I would invite you to join me on my blog, http://thequalitydisciple.blogspot.com, or via Facebook, and let’s learn together what it means to live as a disciple of Jesus Christ. A complete copy of this teaching, “The Edified Church,” is posted on the blog. You can also email me via email at dbates2416@aol.com.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Stay on the Alert

As believers, we need to take great care in order to protect our testimony. The potential to fall into public sin not only can happen to kings or governors; it can also happen to us. This teaching, Stay on the Alert, was given at a men's prayer retreat at Church at Sandhurst in June. It was a timely word then, and I believe a timely word now. It is lengthy, but do not allow the length of the lesson to keep you from reflecting and applying what is presented. May the Lord grant each one of us multiplied grace and peace and the power to resist the pull of personal destruction.

Stay On The Alert—Keeping Yourself Out Of Trouble

Teaching Notes of Denny Bates / Proverbs 7

I THE EFFECTUAL MINISTRY OF THE WORD OF GOD (7:1-5)

A. We are to keep His Words and treasure His commandments

1 My son, keep my words And treasure my commandments within you.

Teaching Point:
What does it mean to “treasure” His commands? The Hebrew word is ṣāpân.
It means hide, treasure, store up.
— Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament

ṣāpân occurs thirty-six times. It means to conceal something with a definite purpose, either for protection or for sinister reasons.
— Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament

Application Point:
This is lived out when we obey the command of Scripture to hide God’s Word in our heart. Note the charge and the benefit of so doing:

Psalms 119:9-11 (NASB95)
9 How can a young man keep his way pure? By keeping it according to Your word.
10 With all my heart I have sought You; Do not let me wander from Your commandments.
11 Your word I have treasured in my heart, That I may not sin against You.

Staying on Point:
Walking in the Word of God; meditating upon it, will draw us closer to Him.

B. We are to keep His commandments or teachings in front of us, close in our heart

2 Keep my commandments and live, And my teaching as the apple of your eye.
3 Bind them on your fingers; Write them on the tablet of your heart.


Teaching Point:
Note six distinct charges: (1) To keep His words; (2) To treasure His commandments; (3) To keep His commandments [and live]; (4) To keep His teaching as the apple of one’s eye; (5) To bind His commandments and teaching on one’s fingers; and (6) To write them on the tablet of one’s heart.

Application Point:
For the disciple of Jesus Christ, there is the great benefit of abiding in, living in, the Word of God. The person who chooses to make this a way of life will experience joy, joy made full by His presence.

John 15:7-11 (NASB95)
7 "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 "My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and so prove to be My disciples. 9 "Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. 10 "If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father's commandments and abide in His love. 11 "These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.

Staying on Point:
Making it a point to make the Word of God our focal point for living will make a lasting impact upon our life.

C. When we value God’s wisdom and seek to receive understanding, we will be protected when temptation comes our way

4 Say to wisdom, "You are my sister," And call understanding your intimate friend;
5 That they may keep you from an adulteress, From the foreigner who flatters with her words.

Teaching Point:
There is an illustration of tender intimacy being described in this passage of Scripture. The idea is one must be willing to get to know, really know all about those whom you love: in this case, God’s wisdom and understanding.

Application Point:
For the Christian believer there is a great journey ahead; when and only when, we are pursuing what is worthy of pursuit: God’s Word, God’s wisdom, and God’s revelation of Himself.

Proverbs 2:1-6 (NASB95)
1 My son, if you will receive my words And treasure my commandments within you, 2 Make your ear attentive to wisdom, Incline your heart to understanding; 3 For if you cry for discernment, Lift your voice for understanding; 4 If you seek her as silver And search for her as for hidden treasures; 5 Then you will discern the fear of the LORD And discover the knowledge of God. 6 For the LORD gives wisdom; From His mouth come knowledge and understanding.

Staying on Point:
Seeking God’s wisdom and understanding will protect us when temptation comes our way.

II THE VICTIM’S NAIVETE (7:6-9)

A. We are to know our weaknesses and pray for common sense

6 For at the window of my house I looked out through my lattice,
7 And I saw among the naive, And discerned among the youths A young man lacking sense,

Teaching Point:
What does the writer of Proverbs mean when he says this young man lacked “sense?” The Hebrew word is “leb” and it means he lacked the right kind of inner man, mind, or heart.
Transliterated Word: leb (524b)
Root: from the same as 3824;

Definition: inner man, mind, will, heart:--
— NASB Greek-Hebrew Dictionary

Concrete meanings of lēb referred to the internal organ and to analogous physical locations. However, in its abstract meanings, "heart" became the richest biblical term for the totality of man's inner or immaterial nature.
— Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament

By far the majority of the usages of lēb refer either to the inner or immaterial nature in general or to one of the three traditional personality functions of man; emotion, thought, or will.
— Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament

Application Point:
The disciple of Jesus Christ who truly wants to follow Him must give no place to an unprotected heart. Common sense demands it. The enemies of a heart that lacks sense are dangerous and many and must be overcome.

1. There is the enemy of committing adultery.

Proverbs 6:32 (NASB95)
32 The one who commits adultery with a woman is lacking sense; He who would destroy himself does it.

Matthew 5:27-28 (NASB95)
27 "You have heard that it was said, 'YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY';
28 but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

2. There is the enemy of youthful lusts.

2 Timothy 2:22 (NASB95)
22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

3. There is the enemy of worldliness.

1 John 2:15-17 (NASB95)
15 Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. 17 The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God lives forever.

Staying on Point:
Knowing our weaknesses can become a great strength if we can exhibit good sense along the way.

B. We are to know our weaknesses and stay out of trouble

8 Passing through the street near her corner; And he takes the way to her house,
9 In the twilight, in the evening, In the middle of the night and in the darkness.

Teaching Point:
It is important for the believer to carefully choose the right path. Opportunities for the right decisions are literally at the fork of the road. We do not wander through life. Every decision has intent. Every path has consequences: some for life…and some for death.

Application Point:
The Word of God has much to say when it comes to choosing the right path.

1. When we do it the right way, God promises to make our paths straight.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NASB95)
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. 6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.

2. We must not take the path of the wicked.

Proverbs 4:14 (NASB95)
14 Do not enter the path of the wicked And do not proceed in the way of evil men.

3. We must follow the Lord’s guidance and walk in the path of the righteous.

Psalms 23:3 (NASB95)
3 He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness For His name's sake.

4. We must learn of the Lord’s ways and of His paths.

Psalms 25:4 (NASB95)
4 Make me know Your ways, O LORD; Teach me Your paths.

Psalms 16:11 (NASB95)
11 You will make known to me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.

Staying on Point:
Knowing the right paths to choose will keep us from losing our way and falling into trouble.

III THE SEDUCTRESS’ CHARACTER (7:10-12)

10 And behold, a woman comes to meet him, Dressed as a harlot and cunning of heart.
11 She is boisterous and rebellious, Her feet do not remain at home;
12 She is now in the streets, now in the squares, And lurks by every corner.

Teaching Point:
There is no room to negotiate a peace treaty with a person of this kind of character. In this case, she is the aggressor, seeking to bring down anyone who becomes entangled in her destructive web. Note her characteristics: (1) She is aggressive; (2) She is a provocative dresser; (3) She is cunning of heart; (4) She is boisterous and rebellious; (5) She is on the prowl, canvassing the streets and lurking by every corner.

Application Point:
What is a believer to do when a temptation comes dressed up and is chasing after him? The Bible gives some practical advice to one and to all; for both young and old.

1. Do not seek to outsmart the temptation. Do the right thing: Turn and RUN the other way!

Proverbs 3:7 (NASB95)
7 Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and turn away from evil.

2 Timothy 2:22 (NASB95)
22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

2. Do not give any temptation a foothold in your life.

James 1:14-15 (NASB95)
14 But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. 15 Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.

3. Do not lose control of your eyes.

2 Peter 2:14 (NASB95)
14 having eyes full of adultery that never cease from sin, enticing unstable souls, having a heart trained in greed, accursed children;

4. DO guard your heart.

Proverbs 4:23 (NASB95)
23 Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life.

Matthew 15:19 (NASB95)
19 "For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders.

Staying on Point:
Making sure we are aware of the character traits of the enemy we are dealing with will help us resist their attack.

IV THE SEDUCTRESS’ TACTICS (7:13-21)

13 So she seizes him and kisses him And with a brazen face she says to him:
14 "I was due to offer peace offerings; Today I have paid my vows.
15 "Therefore I have come out to meet you, To seek your presence earnestly, and I have found you.
16 "I have spread my couch with coverings, With colored linens of Egypt.
17 "I have sprinkled my bed With myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
18 "Come, let us drink our fill of love until morning; Let us delight ourselves with caresses.
19 "For my husband is not at home, He has gone on a long journey;
20 He has taken a bag of money with him, At the full moon he will come home."
21 With her many persuasions she entices him; With her flattering lips she seduces him.

Teaching Point:
The tactics of the adulterous woman are clearly spelled out in this passage of Scripture. She (1) Works quickly; (2) Has no fear or shame; (3) Wears her religion on her sleeve; (4) Has the “right” ambiance in place; (5) Gives a vivid description of the upcoming experience; (6) Ensures that the coast is clear; (7) Flatters him; and then (8) Seduces him.

Application Point:
Sin is attractive. In fact, the Scripture teaches that sin is good or pleasurable for a season. But the inevitable outcome of habitual sin, without the intervention of Christ, is death.

Romans 6:23 (NASB95)
23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Staying on Point:
Making sure we guard our heart and not succumb to the things we illicitly want will give us an even greater freedom over the power of sin.

V THE VICTIM’S RESPONSE (7:22-23)

22 Suddenly he follows her As an ox goes to the slaughter, Or as one in fetters to the discipline of a fool,
23 Until an arrow pierces through his liver; As a bird hastens to the snare, So he does not know that it will cost him his life.

Teaching Point:
There is much sorrow when a saint becomes enamored with sin; thinking all the time, it will have no effect upon him. The reality is that sin bites, and it bites hard. As this passage of Scripture describes, there is a robotic blindness, a bound up sensation that takes place when temptation overcomes us. The arrow strikes…the snare is tripped…a life that had so much to look forward to, is lost.

Application Point:
Sin is destructive. The Bible describes some of the consequences of sin this way:

1. Sin separates us from God.

Genesis 3:8 (NASB95)
8 They heard the sound of the LORD God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the LORD God among the trees of the garden.

2. Sin causes strife and destruction.

Proverbs 17:19 (NASB95)
19 He who loves transgression loves strife; He who raises his door seeks destruction.

3. Sin will burn the offender.

Proverbs 6:27 (NASB95)
27 Can a man take fire in his bosom And his clothes not be burned?

4. Sin has the capacity to destroy the treacherous.

Proverbs 11:3 (NASB95)
3 The integrity of the upright will guide them, But the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them.

5. Sin will destroy those who are enemies of the cross of Christ.

Philippians 3:18-19 (NASB95)
18 For many walk, of whom I often told you, and now tell you even weeping, that they are enemies of the cross of Christ, 19 whose end is destruction, whose god is their appetite, and whose glory is in their shame, who set their minds on earthly things.

6. Sin’s only antidote is the soul-cleansing blood of Jesus Christ.

1 John 1:6-9 (NASB95)
6 If we say that we have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth; 7 but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. 8 If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Staying on Point:
Keeping short accounts with God will be our saving grace when we do succumb to temptation and sin.

VI THE FATHER’S CLOSING EXHORTATION (7:24-27)

24 Now therefore, my sons, listen to me, And pay attention to the words of my mouth.
25 Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her paths.
26 For many are the victims she has cast down, And numerous are all her slain.
27 Her house is the way to Sheol, Descending to the chambers of death.

Teaching Point:
The Father gives some clear instructions of warning after telling this story. This is what He says we should do in order to protect ourselves from becoming the next naïve youth who has no sense. He says to (1) Listen to Him; (2) To pay attention to the words of His mouth; (3) To not let our heart turn aside to the one who is tempting us; (5) To not stray into her paths. And if we fail to heed the Father’s words, we will be added to the list of victims.

Application Point:
It is imperative that the believer pay close attention to what the Father is saying. How do we know what He is saying? We will find what He is saying to us in His Word. He is saying that…

1. The Word of God is perfect, completely reliable.

Psalms 19:7 (NASB95)
7 The law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul; The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.

2. The Word of God is eternal.

Isaiah 40:8 (NASB95)
8 The grass withers, the flower fades, But the word of our God stands forever.

3. The Word of God is living.

Hebrews 4:12 (NASB95)
12 For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

4. The Word of God is powerful.

Isaiah 55:11 (NASB95)
11 So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.

5. The Word of God is what brings us faith.

Romans 10:17 (NASB95)
17 So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.

Staying on Point:
Staying on the alert requires that we marinate our hearts in God’s Word.

Psalms 119:32 (AMP)
32 I will [not merely walk, but] run the way of Your commandments, when You give me a heart that is willing.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Success? Fame? Character?

Chuck Colson has correctly stated that character really matters when it is all said and done. The recent death (and life) of Michael Jackson underscores this point. In Colson's own words...

The Pinnacle of Success?
The Passing of a Pop Star

July 8, 2009

I am an aging, white conservative Baptist. My taste in music runs from Bach to Mozart to Lawrence Welk. Indeed, my staff might say I am the un-hippest man alive.

So you might think that I am surprised by the frenzied and non-stop media coverage of the death of Michael Jackson—perhaps the greatest pop star of all time. But I’m not.

You may think that I don’t “get” why his fans by the millions are grieving, buying up Jackson CDs like they are going out of style, holding vigils at his mansion, desperately trying to get tickets to his memorial service in Los Angeles. But I do.

Here is why they have reason to mourn: Michael Jackson was, by any standard, a musical genius. His albums and his videos thrilled successive generations of pop fans. In fact, I was enthralled myself when I first watched his video presentation at an Epcot exhibit some 20 years ago.

There was, indeed, no one quite like Michael Jackson. And now there will be no new albums, no comeback concert tour, no new dance moves. That’s why they’re mourning.

But here’s why they—and all of us—should mourn the real tragedy that Michael Jackson’s story is. Andrew Sullivan at the Atlantic Monthly blog said it well: Michael Jackson “was everything our culture worships; and yet he was obviously desperately unhappy, tortured, afraid and alone.” He was, as Sullivan noted, nothing but a creature of our culture, which puts “fame and celebrity” at its core, with money as its driving force, without regard for the person caught up in it or the character he exhibits.

By numerous published accounts, Jackson was emotionally abused by his father, a man consumed by the idea that his child could be a superstar. Jackson was a drug addict accused of pedophilia, given to all manner of bizarre behavior. He was, in the end, as Bob Herbert opined in the New York Times, “psychologically disabled, to the point where he was a danger to himself and others.”

It makes the scenes of adoring crowds pushing and shoving to get near yesterday’s memorial service, and the non-stop live television coverage, all the more bizarre and tragic. We worship the celebrity for his fame, degenerate lifestyle not withstanding.

Jackson achieved the summit of what this culture values most—fame—and paid for it with his life. And that is a tragedy.

Life is filled with teaching moments. And for parents, this tragedy is an opportunity to talk with our children about what they really want out of life—what matters most.

And it’s also a time for parents to look in the mirror and ask what we really want for our kids. If the answer is success in life, then we had better know what that definition of success is.

That’s because even Christian parents are not immune to the siren song of fame and fortune for their kids. It’s great that your child can sing and dance. It’s wonderful that he can hit a baseball a country mile. She just might win that academic scholarship to Harvard.

But winning that scholarship, or playing in the major leagues, is not the Christian definition of success. Doing justice, loving mercy, and walking humbly with your God is.

Character matters. Not fame. No matter how un-hip that sounds.

Time

“Daniel’s loyalty was tested by what he ate. Ours is tested by what we put on our calendars. Where you spend your time is an indication of where your loyalties lie. In effect, you pledge your allegiance to the person or thing that receives your time.” (Pg. 75). From Andy Stanley, "Choosing to Cheat."

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The Edified Church

The Edified Church: Christ’s Goal, Our Hope

Dr. Robert Coleman says,

“One must ask, why are so many professed Christians today stunted in their growth and ineffectual in their witness? . . . Indeed, it would appear that the teachings of Christ regarding self-denial and dedication have been replaced by a sort of respectable ‘do-as-you-please’ philosophy of expediency.” Pg. 59. Coleman, Robert E. 1963, 1964, 1993. The master plan of evangelism. Grand Rapids, MI: Fleming H. Revell.

Is Coleman on to something here? Are many professed Christians stunted in their growth and ineffectual in their witness? Here is a news snippet regarding the spiritual health of the Southern Baptists, a great denomination:

“An important indicator for the health of the denomination is new baptisms, which fell in 2008 for the fourth straight year to 342,198, a 1 percent drop and the lowest level since 1987, according to Lifeway Christian Resources, the publishing arm of the Nashville-based Southern Baptist Convention. Total membership of about 16.2 million was flat over the same period, falling by 38,482 or 0.2 percent.” Source: www.thestate.com; Saturday, June 20, 2009

Points to consider:

1. A lot of emphasis is placed upon presenting an evangelistic message during services at many evangelical churches across America. My question is really two-fold: One, with this much of an emphasis, how many souls are coming to Christ during the service (in a month, over the past year, over the past five years)? And two, how empowered (or edified) are the members of the Body of Christ at the local church level when it comes to sharing their faith and bringing others to Christ?

2. My seminary professor, Dr. Harold Burchett, always said that an edified church will become a soul-winning church. It is my observation that we (the leaders of the church) need to do a better job of edifying our flock. And how is a believer edified? He or she is edified when he or she experiences spiritual growth. This is best accomplished when it is modeled by a mentor or disciplemaker.

3. When spiritual growth is occurring and becomes a reality in the lives of believers there is (a) a far greater depth of walking in grace, (b) a greater depth of awe and wonder of the Lord by participating in meaningful, Christ-centered, worship, (c) a fresh commitment for deeper Bible study, reflection and personal application, (d) an intentional decision to be devoted in prayer by seeking to know Christ in an intimate way, (e) a desire to bond with others in a community of faith, (f) a willingness to serve God and our fellow man by using our spiritual gifts and (g) a strategic plan (and availability) to share our faith with the lost.

4. Conversely, when there is little to no spiritual growth occurring in a body of believers, there are several noticeable outcomes: (a) a lack of enthusiasm—for God, for personal spiritual growth, for the body, for the lost; (b) a fracturing of community where the desire for close fellowship with each other wanes; (c) a dulling of the willingness to serve; (d) a lack of desire for personal and corporate prayer; (e) a mistaken religious exercise of what is presented as “worship” becomes man-centered (all about me), not God-centered (all about Him); (f) and while there may very well be new people from other churches who join the body, they must be considered as “transfer” growth (those who are shopping around)—not “regenerated” growth (those who have come to saving faith in Christ).

In light of this discussion, the Bible gives us clear plans on what is expected from His disciples:

1. The saints of the Lord are to be equipped and built up or edified—by church leaders as well as the entire body, contributing to the spiritual growth of each member.

11 And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, 12 for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; Ephesians 4:11-12 (NASB95)

15 but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love. Ephesians 4:15-16 (NASB95)

2. We are all charged to go and make disciples and teach them what it means to live for Jesus.

19 "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." Matthew 28:19-20 (NASB95)

3. We are to make an eternal investment in people.

28 We proclaim Him, admonishing every man and teaching every man with all wisdom, so that we may present every man complete in Christ. 29 For this purpose also I labor, striving according to His power, which mightily works within me. Colossians 1:28-29 (NASB95)

Yours for an edified church,
Denny

Friday, April 17, 2009

Loving The Lord, Loving Others--With Passion

Have you taken to heart the great commandment: to love God with everything within you and to do the same with your neighbor and yourself?

37 Jesus said, " 'Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.'
38 This is the most important, the first on any list.
39 But there is a second to set alongside it: 'Love others as well as you love yourself.'
40 These two commands are pegs; everything in God's Law and the Prophets hangs from them." Matthew 22:37-40 (MSG)

Many of those who call themselves disciples of Jesus Christ have found a safe place in the rut of relationship--just going through the motions. Is that all you want in your relationship with the Lord? Perhaps this song and video will be an encouragement to you to pursue your relationship with the Lord with a renewed zeal.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

The Marks Of A Disciple Of Jesus Christ

Have you ever wondered if you were exhibiting the marks of a disciple of Jesus Christ? What does a disciple look like? John's Gospel gives us a three-fold perspective of those who followed Jesus Christ and what they were doing as they were following Him. May this study not just be about gaining more information, but a prayer for rich personal application.

The Marks Of A Disciple Of Jesus Christ: A Three-Fold Prayer Request

1: A Disciple of Jesus Christ Lives In The Word of God—“Lord Jesus, Help Me Be A Disciple Who Lives In Your Word”

28 So Jesus said, "When you lift up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am He, and I do nothing on My own initiative, but I speak these things as the Father taught Me. 29 "And He who sent Me is with Me; He has not left Me alone, for I always do the things that are pleasing to Him." 30 As He spoke these things, many came to believe in Him. 31 So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, "If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free." John 8:28-32 (NASB95)

The Cause: Belief in Him (vs. 30)

The Effect:
1. Continuance in the Word (vs. 31)
2. The Affirmation and Confirmation of our relationship with Him (vs. 31)
3. The Knowledge of the truth and the freedom this entails (vs. 32)

Some things to ponder upon and then pray about…

What does it mean for me to “continue” or “remain” in God’s Word? What do I need to do in my life in order to make God’s Word a greater priority?

What does it mean for me to be called a disciple of Jesus Christ?

Would I consider my life as one marked by freedom or is there something that binds me up? What “truth” can set me free if I embrace it today?

2: A Disciple of Jesus Christ Is Known By the Quality of Love He Expresses To Other Believers—“Lord Jesus, Help Me Be A Disciple Who Loves Your People”

34 "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35 "By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another." John 13:34-35 (NASB95)

The Cause:
1. Jesus loves us (vs. 34)
2. A new commandment has been given to us (vs. 34)

The Effect:
1. Obedience to this command is possible because Jesus has already modeled it and shown us how to love one another (vs. 34)
2. Our love for Him and allegiance to Him will be known to “all men,” including those outside the faith, IF we are loving other believers (vs. 35)

Some things to ponder upon and then pray about…

Is my love for others based upon an obligation (what is in it for me) or upon a burden of truly caring (what is in it for them)?

In a court of law, would my witness of love be sufficient enough to convict me of being a disciple of Jesus?

In my inner circle of relationships, who do I need to focus upon and to express my love more? What kind of loving acts does this person (s) need from me?

3: A Disciple of Jesus Christ Is Fruitful: He Bears Fruit, Abundant Fruit, Lasting Fruit—“Lord Jesus, Help Me Be A Disciple Who Makes A Difference and Bears Spiritual Fruit”

1 "I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. 2 "Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit. 3 "You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. 4 "Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me. 5 "I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. 6 "If anyone does not abide in Me, he is thrown away as a branch and dries up; and they gather them, and cast them into the fire and they are burned. 7 "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 "My Father is glorified by this, that you bear much fruit, and so prove to be My disciples. 9 "Just as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love. 10 "If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept My Father's commandments and abide in His love. 11 "These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full. 12 "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. 13 "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends. 14 "You are My friends if you do what I command you. 15 "No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you. 16 "You did not choose Me but I chose you, and appointed you that you would go and bear fruit, and that your fruit would remain, so that whatever you ask of the Father in My name He may give to you. 17 "This I command you, that you love one another. John 15:1-17 (NASB95)

The Cause: Abiding in Jesus / Abiding in His Word (vs. 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10)

The Effect:
1. Bearing Fruit (vs. 4, 5)
2. Answered Prayer (vs. 7)
3. Bringing Glory to the Father (vs. 8)
4. Bearing Abundant Fruit (vs. 8)
5. Proving the Validity of One’s Discipleship with Jesus (vs. 8)
6. Obedience to Jesus (vs. 10)
7. A Life Marked with Great Joy (vs. 11)
8. A Recipient and Giver of Sacrificial Love (vs. 12-13)
9. A Friendship, a Unique Relationship with Jesus (vs. 14-15)
10. A Divine Purpose (vs. 16)
11. A Lasting Fruit (vs. 16)

Some things to ponder upon and then pray about…

What is it in my life that others who know me best would consider to be “fruitful?”

What can I do in my life that will make me become a better friend to Jesus?

What is my divine purpose? What has God put me on earth to do? Am I doing it?

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Spring—A Time Of Restoration and Growth

We are all used to having to “Spring Forward” when time changes. When we feel good, it can be said of us that we have a “Spring in our Step.” Where I live (in Florence South Carolina) Spring is not just a day on the calendar, but a change of season that can be measured. It is not as cold, not as barren as the winter months. Looking around, life that was dormant for a season is beginning to appear again: Parents pushing baby strollers on the sidewalk, trees beginning to bud, and shirtsleeves going from long to short.

All of this change has reminded me of how the English word “spring” is used in the Bible. It often speaks of refreshment, restoration, the very essence of an abundant life found only for those who are disciples of Jesus Christ.

Are you weary? Are you ready to move from the winter season of your soul into a time of restoration and growth? Allow the Lord to use these passages of Scripture, these great promises for the disciple of Jesus Christ; to embrace you, to encourage you and to be the catalyst for your own time of restoration and growth—this Spring!

He changes a wilderness into a pool of water And a dry land into springs of water; Psalms 107:35 (NASB95)

Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life. Proverbs 4:23 (NASB95)

2 "Behold, God is my salvation, I will trust and not be afraid; For the LORD GOD is my strength and song, And He has become my salvation." 3 Therefore you will joyously draw water From the springs of salvation. 4 And in that day you will say, "Give thanks to the LORD, call on His name. Make known His deeds among the peoples; Make them remember that His name is exalted." Isaiah 12:2-4 (NASB95)

"Behold, I will do something new, Now it will spring forth; Will you not be aware of it? I will even make a roadway in the wilderness, Rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:19 (NASB95)

9 "Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; You will cry, and He will say, 'Here I am.' If you remove the yoke from your midst, The pointing of the finger and speaking wickedness, 10 And if you give yourself to the hungry And satisfy the desire of the afflicted, Then your light will rise in darkness And your gloom will become like midday. 11 "And the LORD will continually guide you, And satisfy your desire in scorched places, And give strength to your bones; And you will be like a watered garden, And like a spring of water whose waters do not fail. 12 "Those from among you will rebuild the ancient ruins; You will raise up the age-old foundations; And you will be called the repairer of the breach, The restorer of the streets in which to dwell. Isaiah 58:9-12 (NASB95)

"So let us know, let us press on to know the LORD. His going forth is as certain as the dawn; And He will come to us like the rain, Like the spring rain watering the earth." Hosea 6:3 (NASB95)

for the Lamb in the center of the throne will be their shepherd, and will guide them to springs of the water of life; and God will wipe every tear from their eyes." Revelation 7:17 (NASB95)

Then He said to me, "It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give to the one who thirsts from the spring of the water of life without cost. Revelation 21:6 (NASB95)

May this Spring be a time where you will experience a spiritual renewal, a greater love for Jesus Christ.

Making disciples with you,

Denny

Monday, March 9, 2009

The Loss Of Faith In The USA

The Loss Of Faith In The USA—This Is Why We Must Live The Discipled Life

There is a great cause for alarm for the Christian and his and her church if disciples are not being multiplied and becoming disciplemakers for Jesus. Over the course of time, many churches have, in America, settled for a disciple-lite kind of Christianity. Many have become satisfied with worn-out traditions and a spiritual status quo; where no one is changing to become more like Christ and no change is being made in the church that cultivates an environment where spiritual growth is not the norm.

Now, we are seeing its awful fruit where we are losing a culture to a generation who perceives God and Christianity “as a hobby or a fashion statement,” not a life-transforming way of life as a biblical disciple of Jesus Christ.
The latest news of the day comes from USA Today, the March 9, 2009 edition. May the Lord use this ominous study to compel us to a fresh and vibrant commitment to make disciples for Jesus Christ. God’s way makes disciples. Man’s way makes a mess.

Most religious groups in USA have lost ground, survey finds
By Cathy Lynn Grossman, USA TODAY

When it comes to religion, the USA is now land of the freelancers.
The percentage. of people who call themselves in some way Christian has dropped more than 11% in a generation. The faithful have scattered out of their traditional bases: The Bible Belt is less Baptist. The Rust Belt is less Catholic. And everywhere, more people are exploring spiritual frontiers — or falling off the faith map completely.

These dramatic shifts in just 18 years are detailed in the new American Religious Identification Survey (ARIS), to be released today. It finds that, despite growth and immigration that has added nearly 50 million adults to the U.S. population, almost all religious denominations have lost ground since the first ARIS survey in 1990.

"More than ever before, people are just making up their own stories of who they are. They say, 'I'm everything. I'm nothing. I believe in myself,' " says Barry Kosmin, survey co-author.

Among the key findings in the 2008 survey:
• So many Americans claim no religion at all (15%, up from 8% in 1990), that this category now outranks every other major U.S. religious group except Catholics and Baptists. In a nation that has long been mostly Christian, "the challenge to Christianity … does not come from other religions but from a rejection of all forms of organized religion," the report concludes.

• Catholic strongholds in New England and the Midwest have faded as immigrants, retirees and young job-seekers have moved to the Sun Belt. While bishops from the Midwest to Massachusetts close down or consolidate historic parishes, those in the South are scrambling to serve increasing numbers of worshipers.

• Baptists, 15.8% of those surveyed, are down from 19.3% in 1990. Mainline Protestant denominations, once socially dominant, have seen sharp declines: The percentage of Methodists, for example, dropped from 8% to 5%.

• The percentage of those who choose a generic label, calling themselves simply Christian, Protestant, non-denominational, evangelical or "born again," was 14.2%, about the same as in 1990.

Meanwhile, nearly 2.8 million people now identify with dozens of new religious movements, calling themselves Wiccan, pagan or "Spiritualist," which the survey does not define.

Wicca, a contemporary form of paganism that includes goddess worship and reverence for nature, has even made its way to Arlington National Cemetery, where the Pentagon now allows Wiccans' five-pointed-star symbol to be used on veterans' gravestones.

Religion as a hobby

Since the first ARIS study was released, other major national surveys have offered snapshots of the USA's faith.

The Baylor University Religion Surveys in 2006 and 2008, each based on 35,000 interviews, were distinguished by a look at how people described and understood God. The Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life released its Religious Landscape Survey last year, also based on 35,000 interviews, mapping Americans' beliefs state by state. It found that 41% of people had switched their religion at some point in life.

The initial ARIS report in 1990 set the table for those surveys.
It was based on 113,000 interviews, updated with 50,000 more in 2001 and now 54,000 in 2008. Because the U.S. Census does not ask about religion, the ARIS survey was the first comprehensive study of how people identify their spiritual expression.
Kosmin concluded from the 1990 data that many saw God as a "personal hobby," and that the USA is "a greenhouse for spiritual sprouts."
Today, he says, "religion has become more like a fashion statement, not a deep personal commitment for many." [end of USA Today article]

Ezra and the Discipled Life

So, what are we to do? We are to do just what Ezra did: He lived the discipled life, before the Lord and before others.

For Ezra had set his heart to study the law of the LORD and to practice it, and to teach His statutes and ordinances in Israel. Ezra 7:10 (NASB95)

For Ezra had devoted himself to the study and observance of the Law of the LORD, and to teaching its decrees and laws in Israel. Ezra 7:10 (NIV)

9 Ezra had scheduled their departure from Babylon on the first day of the first month; they arrived in Jerusalem on the first day of the fifth month under the generous guidance of his God. 10 Ezra had committed himself to studying the Revelation of God, to living it, and to teaching Israel to live its truths and ways. Ezra 7:9-10 (MSG)

1. He set his heart to study God’s Word
2. He practiced it and applied God’s Word to his life by living the discipled life
3. He taught it to others, making disciples who would learn to live in God’s truths and ways

Like Ezra, we too must study; we must commit ourselves to spending time in and learning the truths of God’s Word.

Like Ezra, we too must practice what we know and apply God’s Word to our life; going beyond just knowing the facts from the Bible to obeying those facts with a willing heart.

Like Ezra, we too must teach God’s Word to others; we must not keep it to ourselves but reach out and intentionally make disciples of Jesus Christ.

Looking for a way to cut against the cultural grain where faith is losing ground? You do it by following Jesus’ clear instructions:

19 Go out and train everyone you meet, far and near, in this way of life, marking them by baptism in the threefold name: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. 20 Then instruct them in the practice of all I have commanded you. I'll be with you as you do this, day after day after day, right up to the end of the age." Matthew 28:19-20 (MSG)

Making disciples with you, by studying it, practicing it, and teaching it…Until He returns.

Denny